Which One Are You?

Sex with your girlfriend, close friend, friend, friend with benefits, acquaintance, and one night stand are totally different from one another. The sex might be the same but the rules of the game change. Women tend to think that its the quality of the guy she has had sex with that is better then the number. Men realistically don't give a fuck and want the numbers. In a locker room fucking 20 women over 1 is always better. As men age, quality comes into play but men from their teens to about their mid thirties don't give a fuck if you are the best. They want the number that's going to rank them.

The only time the ranking doesn't apply to a guy is when he has a girlfriend.
Girlfriend- my definition is a woman who I am dating and everyone knows it. There is no one else entering into the picture. No cheating and honesty is there. Dating also has certain mile stones. The 3 month anniversary is when the real people start to emerge. From 4-11 months its seeing if you make it with this person for a year. Finding everything out about each other, the good and the bad. Once you hit that year its time to question what you are doing. Once the relationship hits that one year mark it gets complicated to say the least. Women don't want to be pulled along just for some ride with nothing in the future.

Close Friend- a woman I am not dating but who knows almost everything about me. Someone you can trust and depend on. Sex with a close friend is the trickiest out of all the women in a persons life. Once you cross that line there are questions that both parties have to ask themselves. Would they want to date? Would this ruin a friendship? Would this be an open policy? After a few wrong turns in the category I suggest not having any kind of sex relationship with a close friend unless it is leading into the girlfriend category. Its just trouble and it can be a downfall to a great relationship.

Friend- a woman I know and am not dating. We may hangout and be in the same circle of friends but there isn't that honesty and relationship that you may have with a close friend. Sex with a friend might also be tricky but is more manageable. If you have sex with your friend you have to make them know that this is for fun. No future just friendship. Make clear any worries or concerns before hand and everything will go smoothly just don't make this is a daily or weekly thing. Maybe once or twice a month is good enough. Attachment sets in much more quickly with a friend than someone you have just met.

Friend With Benefits- This is easy unless you don't know what to do. Anyone who has a FWB knows that rules have to be there unless it can get very complicated.
These are my rules I go by. Most people have their own but make sure to go through them with your fwb before anything happens.
Rule 1- No spending the night
Rule2- You have to be single
Rule 3- Never become a fwb with an ex
Rule 4- Don't leave anything behind at a persons place
Rule 5- No dates of any kind
Rule 6- Keep it to yourselves (Cant tell your friends who she is)
Rule 7- As soon as there are any emotions, get out
Rule 8- Always use protection.

Acquaintance- Someone who you may know but is not in your circle of friends. This person you do not see often so sex is alright with them. In the end there are no call backs or anything of that nature, but there is always the chance of running into them. Just be casual and let this relationship flow easy.


One Night Stand- This woman is someone who you do not know at all and probably will never see again. This is just pure sex, no emotions, no trading of any private information. If you give out your number or anything where they can see you again, a one night stand upgrades into an acquaintance. This is the easiest person to have sex with and usually where your number rises.